The time has finally come for me to reveal what I’ve been a little mystrious about for the past few weeks. There’s been a big change in my life lately and it’s not all for the better.
I’m getting divorced.
It wasn’t my choice and I did everything I could to keep my marriage together, but you can’t force someone to stay married to you. So, that decided, I resolved to move on and make my way. I’m moving to Orlando, where a good friend that I’ve made through comics needs a roommate, and another good friend that I’ve known for two decades lives. Orlando has a great community of artists, and a burgeoning community of skeptics. I’m really looking forward to the move. A recent trip to arrange some things showed just how much support is down there, and how good it probably is for me to move down there around friends.
Do I regret the past 17 years? No, My wife shaped me into a much better man. I’d like to think that I had some positive effect on her, but if I never get to know that, I’ll be okay. I do love her, and wish I could be around to help her through whatever he future holds for her, but since she wants to go forward alone, the least I can do is get out of her way. We’re parting very civilly, so all should be cordial up until the day I load my share of stuff into a truck and head south.
I’m looking forward now, and hopefully the next few weeks will go smoothly. If anyone wants to help, I’ll happily do commission drawings so you can support my move and not feel like you’re giving me a hand out. Contact me. I’m making a trip to Athens this weekend, and one to western NC a couple of weekends later, to see friends and family. There may be a short jaunt to Orlando if someone wants to interview me, but I look to be moved completely down by the middle of October. If anyone wants to meet up, I’d be happy to do so as long our schedules can sync up.
That all said, there’s a list of about twenty separate steps to take before I move. That means that the updates will be few and far between for the comic. After I settle in, I’ll be drawing a lot more regularly and hopefully updating like mad. Keep your fingers crossed for me!
Oh, and keep your fingers crossed for Penny, too.